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Originally Posted by patbunny1
@ Tart Cherry Jam
i used to be a hopeless romantic at one point. but now i do not believe in those things. i'm the one who asked out from him thinking he's teh one and now i'm the one that's suffering. i'm way too attached after 4 years of living together and i have completely forgot what life bfor this even was like. and now cant live alone without him. i love him, i do. but, uk what i mean. i dont even think i can think straight anymore |
It is very hard, extremely hard to imaging life how it had been before you fell in love with him. But you had lived, you had had fun, you had enjoyed friendships, you had been yourself. I would suggest getting in touch with you as you had been before you met him. This will demonstrate to you that you exist as a whole and separate unit outside of the relationship with him. I do realize how hard it is but suggest that you try rekindling your friendships from before you met him as these friends will remind you that you have a separate existence, separate from his man and your feelings for him. Visiting places where you had been without him would help, too.