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Default Nov 10, 2023 at 01:17 AM
 
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Originally Posted by LadyShadow View Post
@Exoskeleton - So I don't know if this will make sense to you, but I am a Cancer zodiac sign and I am so sensitive to these kinds of things that I react this exact same way. I would feel extremely hurt too! My sensitivity gets so bad too, that if my friends tag each other on Facebook and don't mention me, I immediately withdraw and feel left out.

Your feelings are valid to me. But like the other poster said maybe there were some reasons why this happened - I would hate to see you lose your friends over a misunderstanding. It's hard when you're dealing with BPD too, but if it's bugging you that much, is it possible to tell one of them how you're feeling? I know confrontation isn't my thing either, but I wouldn't want it to eat away at you and make you depressed. Consider it, maybe it will help!

Thank you so much for validating my feelings. That means a lot This was definitely unusual and unexpected. There are about 8 - 10 of us who get together every couple of months or so. It is possible this was a more spontaneous gathering, but it's still odd they didn't text me.

Yes! I think I will find a way to somehow ask/express my feelings, in as non-confrontational and casual a way as possible. I think I need to do that for my own peace of mind. Hopefully that will make it easier for me to move on. Thanks for suggesting that too!
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