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Default Nov 11, 2023 at 03:31 PM
 
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Originally Posted by felineangel View Post
What's a better way to self harm, than
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Hi @felineangel. I have heard from other people I talked to that there are other ways to cope which do not involve self harm. How I interpret your question is how can I feel better without self harming and the unpleasant consequences that involves.

So here are 10 alternatives that could give you a respite without self harm. 10 Alternatives to Self-Harm to Do Next Time You Want to Hurt Yourself | SELF

Another technique that people tell me has helped them is urge surfing. Urges last usually about 90 seconds according to studies that have been done, so one way to deal with the urge to self harm is to out wait it. These youtube videos describe the method.





Hope you find other ways to help you cope.

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