http://www.cfidsselfhelp.org/index.htm

This is a good self help site for folks with fibromyalgia and/or chronic fatigue syndrome. I've also taken online self help classes through this group that were very helpful.

I myself had to stop aiming for total symptom relief - it might happen - but for now just taking the edge off of things is great.

Here is a men with fibro site, I don't know anything about it but might be worth checking out too:
http://www.menwithfibro.com/home.html