Not sure where else to post to get advice .. but we are not in a relationship.
I added this guy on FB and messaged him. We work together and I thought he was cute. I basically asked him to hang out and we went for drinks. Realizing we had gone to school together too and never actually met. There were some awkward moments but we spent a lot of time together that seemed nice. The night ended. We went our separate ways. He never messaged me. I messaged him asking him for a second date. He said he would.
He did mention both times being quite busy, and that’s why he hasn’t dated much.
Either way. He messages me like right before to confirm time.
He’s a gentleman, he opens doors and pays …
After the second date I did mention he could message more and he did message the next night something random but that was about it.
I had left my cup in his car and I again took the opportunity to ask him to hangout AGAIN (third times a charm?).
He said he was open to another date. I ended up asking where he stood with all this, and he also said he liked me, enjoyed hanging out with me and felt pretty comfortable around me.
So I said let’s Netflix and chill.
The night comes up, and I have to cancel since my child got sick. I asked when he’s free again, and he said the next week.
He asked what my intentions were and we spoke some, sexted a bit.
Well roll around to this week and he cancels saying he forgot he had plans with family. Which I said to have fun with his family.
He did not try to reschedule.
Does this mean he’s just not interested? Or I scared him off by moving too fast?
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