<font color="purple"> If this little babe was the result of a weeks fling, then she isn't really involved with the child, is she? Because if the female 1/2 of herDNA combination isn't a part of her life then she isn't really her mother. I've never been in a relationship, but as a kid of divorced parents at a young age I gotta tell you it's important to accept the kid as a kid and not some attatchment in a relationship. Please grow to love them both for who they are, and that is the only way I can garuntee that it'll last forever. </font>