I can't offer any solutions, but I can offer validation.

You're right. Totally right.

What you're experiencing is ridiculous. I've been on the receiving end of it myself and have seen this game.

You're dealing with someone who views you as their servant, or that these tasks are your job, and your frustration or your pain and injury doesn't matter, because this is your role to them.

And you're treated like a nag for saying anything.

This isn't gendered... I'm a guy. It's been done to me too.

RDMercer