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Old Nov 18, 2023, 10:17 PM
RDMercer RDMercer is offline
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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
I think your last three sentences sum it up: "He's not stupid. He *can* learn. He just doesn't want to."

It is not incompetence. It is a choice to do it badly or carelessly. So much for equal partnership..

And yes, men are typically guilty of that: 'I will mess it up, so that *she* has to do it herself. Hahaha'. Good for you for not giving up on yourself, despite the frustration.


So, we're all ok with bashing one gender or the other on this thread?

Looks like OP is too, since they quoted you and supported your statement.

I've been married to an abusive wife who's found umpteen reasons to not have virtually any responsibilities for about 15 years.

My uncle married a woman like that too.

So did one of my coworkers.

And so did my uncle's son.

And a friend of mine married an utterly useless man.

So..... Maybe it's not a gendered issue.


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