@RDMercer I intend no offense. Sorry to have triggered bad memories. No it is NOT gendered. In my examples, the one who kept having to be told how to operate the appliances and didn’t know what product to use in the bathroom was my college roommate. Female, and two years older than I was.

Ironically enough, the one who ruined the central vacuum system trying to suck up toys and socks was my husband’s first wife. He’s been on the other end of it too.