Work is a place where you focus on work and relationships come slowly as you focus on work. These people have been together for a while you’re new, you need to relax and realize It will take awhile. constantly asking for reassurance is not the proper work place behavior. You need to focus on work, not relationships. It was not good to text that girl constantly.

It sounds like a wonderful company. They are giving you a chance to be more professional and get help. It’s good that you are seeing someone, make good use of that time. Use the therapist to ask her for reassurance don’t bring it up at work.