I was able to confirm that my payment counts despite their online website time restriction for online payments. HUGE relief.
I had flowers delivered to my niece who moved to another state today - radio silence. I confirmed with the florist the flowers were delivered. Well, I had these visceral negative emotional internal responses:
a) she’s like her mother (my sister who hates me) and shares my sister’s sentiments towards me (despises me, too) .
b) she’s not thoughtful or considerate and doesn’t respect me.
c) she’s embarrassed by my external expression in front of her boss and coworkers b/c she doesn’t like me
d) when the florist delivered the flowers, my niece lied, pretending not to know anyone there by her name so the flowers never were delivered.

I shouldn’t have attached expectations to the flower delivery. I was wrong to expect a response from my niece. I should accept her radio silence towards my gesture as proof of what she truly feels towards her aunt; absolute loathing and disgust.