I would be honest with them anyways. As long as he's not abusive, and as long as you're able to convey that which you did well in this post so you're good there (you can even write down what you want to say if you think you'll go off course and start making shyt up. I know I do this because of memory problems/false memories/sometimes delusions)they won't think h is abusive.

Are there any good food pantries in your area? There's a church across the street from us that gives out some good stuff every wednesday.