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Old Nov 23, 2023, 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
I don't know how to undo this. How do you change something that you're so conditioned by?
My sense is that you're struggling to "undo this" because that's what your "inner critic" demands.

The only way out of that spiral that I can see, is to just keep noticing and acknowledging whatever your inner critic says -- as in, "Thank you. You're absolutely right, of course. "

This approach tends to work best if you then don't actually do whatever your inner critic is telling you you have to.