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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I don't know how to undo this. How do you change something that you're so conditioned by?
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My sense is that you're struggling to "undo this" because that's what your "inner critic" demands.
The only way out of that spiral that I can see, is to just keep noticing and acknowledging whatever your inner critic says -- as in, "Thank you. You're absolutely right, of course.

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This approach tends to work best if you then don't actually do whatever your inner critic is telling you you have to.