I could have written this. I am with you.
One of the things I have is no one believes me. But I know it is true. For the last 40 years I have been trying to lose weight. But I always gain it back. So many people have told me try this or that and it won't happen. But every time it does. My body is X and I know it is X... but when I tell people it is X they tell me I am wrong. In no other world would anyone say that but weight loss.
My suggestion... getting rid of sugar (keto) really helped any pain I had. Honestly google it. There are a lot of Keto foods that also help you eat foods you like but don't increase sugar. Sugar for me bothers everything. When I have to go to work I abstain from sugar and it helps me not suffer.