In addition to my father's constant berating and criticism, my mother is the freaking same way. I did something really stupid the other night, and her first words when I told her were "you idiot!!!". No wonder I've struggled with an inner critic and self esteem issues all of my life! Right now, I am seething with anger towards my mother. And she has to drive me somewhere this morning because my car is out of commission. I hate that I need her help right now.