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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam
You write that you feel judged, but your post is full of judgments of other people. I did not go through the whole post, but just at the beginning you judge other people as rude twice.
Recoiling and making a face is not a good way to convey your discomfort. Yes, you should tell people that you do not feel comfortable when being touch and could they please avoid touching you. That lady did not deserve being made a face at. She probably was trying to establish a connection in a way that felt natural to her.
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I was stating facts. I stated what happened & how other people made me feel.
If that sounds judgmental to you, then I don’t know what else to say. I thought that those two women who rudely looked at my body, one doing it twice was rude.
Do you think it was OK for them to judge ME like that, but I am somehow the problem & being ‘judgemental’ for complaining about that? If so, then I don’t get why you think it’s OK for other people to disrespect me yet I should treat them with the utmost respect back.
Respect works both ways. As for that touchy felt lady, I should have set boundaries nicely. I had a knee jerk reaction unfortunately.
She was not trying to connect with me as her tone was one of annoyance while training me. She seemed like she was trying to annoy me.
Also, she did not say hi to me when she met me or tell me her name. She didn’t say bye either. All I got was coldness & annoyance from her. Obviously she wasn’t trying to connect with me.
As I said earlier, she looked at my body rudely twice which suggests thst she was trying to physically show dominance.
I just got a bad vibe from her. That is my opinion, not me being judgemental.
I feel that you are judging me tbh which I don’t like. I feel like I was being treated rudely & inappropriately.