I am confused again. You are saying you don’t want this woman to be in trouble. In the very next sentence you state you’ll complain about her to HR when you leave the job. So you want her to be in trouble, just not right this second. You want her in trouble after you leave the job.

So you don’t care that someone apologized and admitted wrong doing. So when you do something wrong and later apologize and repent, do you believe you still need to be punished, reported and face consequences? You do not believe in forgiveness and do you expect perfection from people? Do you never say or do anything wrong? Do you expect perfection from yourself?