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Old Nov 24, 2023, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam View Post
I would give them a broad smile and see if they themselves ask you if you'd hang out with them on break.
Really? After I was treated rudely? Did you read the part about how i said hi & good morning to the people in H. R & then was just stared at?

Out of 3 people there, no one said anything until I asked them what they’d likeme to do.

I remained calm & professional on the outside but inside I was hurting.

I didn’t understand why they couldn’t at least be civil towards me even if they might have not liked me.

Do you see my point now?

I’ve noticed that both you & Divine tend to think that every single thing is my fault and it seems to me that you both think that I should go out of my way to try to be nice to people who don’t even like me.

Why is that? I told you I tried. It’s NOT always ME who is the problem.

It’s like you think I should let people treat me like dirt just to be ‘liked’ or ‘accepted’ & I don’t agree with that attitude at all as I deserve to be respected.

How would YOU have handled each insulting scenario exactly? Would you just ignore it? Would you still try to be nice to everyone? I genuinely would like to onow how you’d handle the following:

The big momma incident

The being ignored at & stared at in H.R by 3 people

Being inappropriate ly looked at by two women. If they were men btw, most women would report them for sexual harassment. Being female doesn’t excuse that rude pervert behavior. loll

It seems like you think I’m an inferior being who needs to suck up to people & take whatever b.s they throw at me,.

I’m not rude, mean, or disrespectful. They are.