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Originally Posted by jesyka
I see your point. My point however is simple, she will probably continue to make nasty remarks towards fat people & get away with it too unless someone does something about it.
It’s as bad as someone using the N word.. If she made a joke about black people, would you brush it off if she just apologized for things? Probably not.
Also, someone said that a customer could possibly sue the company or maybe her for harassment or discrimination, so in a way, I’m doing the company a favor by educating them to NOT tolerate that crap!
She said that in front of a few customers btw. The company could easily loose customers who would be offended by that statement. Joke or not.
Do you now see what I mean? It’s not just about me. It’s NOT OK to fat shame people & discrimnate against fat people & act like being thin makes you automatically better than a fat person!
I thought you’d know better than that! How would YOU feel if a woman rude insensitive person like her made a comment about how cheap Jewish or Indian people are in front of you, even as a joke? Would you be OK with everything if she merely apologized for her mistake?
I don’t think that’s enough as I doubt she was sincere forone. It was clear she was making fun of me for being fat. Two, she needs to be told it’s inappropriate by H.R as an incentive to not do it again or risk loosing her job. As I said, the company could be sued over this. Get my point now?
Or maybe insulting fat people is just OK? Am I supposed to act like I wasn’t being laughed at & discrimnated to my face? I don’t think so.
I bet you’d have a lot more compassion & empathy for someone who was the victim of a racial joke sadly. Most people don’t care about the feelings of overweight people.
You obviously weren’t there. You didn’t see or hear her go on & on about how small & petite she was. The way she looked at me made me feel as if she wanted or was expecting me to compliment her on how small & skinny she is, lol. Not kidding!
She stopped trying to train me immediately after that as if she was upset that I didn’t treat her like she was above me for being thin, lol. Not jealous btw. That is an observation & a fact.
We might as well be subhuman. I don’t expect you to get that as you seem to think I don’t deserve any respect from anyone whatsoever.
It’s like I have to suck up to everyone no matter how badly they treat me & how dare I speak up & stick up for myself period. I should be grateful that I have a job, seriously?
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When you report this woman and she’s being asked what happened, she’ll tell them that she used rude term but when it was pointed out to her she apologized, corrected herself and thanked a person for pointing it out. Obviously she won’t be in trouble for any of that as she already corrected her actions.
So what exactly is your goal here? Also what type of punishment you want for her? To get her fired? It won’t happen. What are you trying to accomplish?