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Originally Posted by jesyka
Really? After I was treated rudely? Did you read the part about how i said hi & good morning to the people in H. R & then was just stared at?
Out of 3 people there, no one said anything until I asked them what they’d likeme to do.
I remained calm & professional on the outside but inside I was hurting.
I didn’t understand why they couldn’t at least be civil towards me even if they might have not liked me.
Do you see my point now?
I’ve noticed that both you & Divine tend to think that every single thing is my fault and it seems to me that you both think that I should go out of my way to try to be nice to people who don’t even like me.
Why is that? I told you I tried. It’s NOT always ME who is the problem.
It’s like you think I should let people treat me like dirt just to be ‘liked’ or ‘accepted’ & I don’t agree with that attitude at all as I deserve to be respected.
How would YOU have handled each insulting scenario exactly? Would you just ignore it? Would you still try to be nice to everyone? I genuinely would like to onow how you’d handle the following:
The big momma incident
The being ignored at & stared at in H.R by 3 people
Being inappropriate ly looked at by two women. If they were men btw, most women would report them for sexual harassment. Being female doesn’t excuse that rude pervert behavior. loll
It seems like you think I’m an inferior being who needs to suck up to people & take whatever b.s they throw at me,.
I’m not rude, mean, or disrespectful. They are.
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You asked what I would do. I would do exactly what you did. Tell the person it’s a wrong term and it shouldn’t be used. At no point I said you should suck it up. You should correct the person and you did.
I don’t know what you mean by looking at you “inappropriately”. Like how? It’s subjective. You assumed it’s because they didn’t like your looks. But there’s no way to know
If you said hi and no one answered, it’s certainly rude and you’ll encounter rude people everywhere you go. It’s not something you can sue for or get people fired for not saying hi to you. It’s unpleasant but courses of actions you want to take are extreme.
Of course you can also quit your job because someone didn’t say hi to you or looked at you the way you didn’t like.