Wow, thank you for your reply! You are right. Living with someone who is unstable and self centered is not ideal. When we first met, she warned me. But, having no experience with it I figured if she took her meds I could handle it. Then she got pregnant and we got married. Anyway, Im glad for the advice! I will use this advice and try to move on. I too am helping to take care of my elderly father, its just so much at one time!