I don’t hate myself & I’m not projecting or imagining or assuming things. This is what happened. Their behavior was NOT normal. Your perception of normal is off.

It doesn’t matter if that lacdy was raised to think skinny is good. It was extremely inappropriate to make that big momma comment. It’s an insult. It’s not cute or funny. It’s mean spirited, rude & very unprofessional.

Do you consider that professional appropriate workplace behavior?

What they all did was not normal or appropriate. Anyone who thinks it is, idk, wrong.