Is he OK around guns himself? is what I was referring to.

I hope you will have further clarity on 12/5 as to what to do.

I wouldn't confront him about anything at this point, get your psychologist's input.

Do ask about your options for staying safe on 12/5...

In the meantime, getting out in nature might help. Perhaps he would take a walk with you and your dogs?

Rely on your dogs as much as you can, you need the comfort of your ESAs. Also, give yourself some extra loving self-care.