So... what is your marriage like overall? This incident is one snapshot of a repeated type of argument and dynamic within your marriage. How does your husband treat you on a day to day basis? Does he bully you in other ways? Does he talk down to you and belittle you? Does he treat you like you are dumb generally speaking and as though he knows it all and you know nothing? Or does he treat you with loving kindness and respect on a daily basis?