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Old Nov 29, 2023, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Makes sense. I was just thinking that having ASD might be an explanation to some of the things he might be having hard time with.

Change is hard. Especially as we age.

I admire your hubby for making a living
Thank you. So do I. In that way, he does better than I do. When I met him, I was on disability, and I am just now rehabbing to the point where I CAN work. That’s largely thanks to him. He gave me the support and resources I needed.

Unlike so many others in my past, including my ex, hubby does not prank or tease me, and he doesn’t think that kind of thing is funny. He doesn’t make subtle digs at women, as my ex used to do, and recently when I had an embarrassing incident happen, he couldn’t have been more loving and supportive. My ex, and many of my family members, would have made fun of me. That’s something hubby would never do. Perhaps you can see why I am defensive of him when it’s even hinted at that he abuses me. After being with ex, I certainly know the difference.
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unaluna
Thanks for this!
unaluna