Hi Albatross!

Yes, for some people, self reflection and self-awareness is difficult.

I'm so impressed to see you recognize that it's present in your DH without villainizing him, and actually speaking from a place of empathy..... Frustration for sure.... But still empathetic.

I think you just need someone to see and validate what your experiences are. You aren't hoping to leave at this time.

This has to be very hard at times for you.

RDMercer