So, I am having major second thoughts about going through with "the Thing" next week. I called my primary care dr after work and told them I'd like the referral he offered to another gyno after all, to get a 2nd opinion. I'm going to call gyno tomorrow morning and change my appointment to be an ask-more-questions one instead. I just don't want it and dammit it's my body (insert newly-minted assertiveness here). I want to take a little more time to explore any other possible options. H is actually in total agreement with me, he thought all along I should get a 2nd and maybe even a 3rd opinion over the next few months and not rush into it just because one dr says it's the right thing, when I feel so strongly against it.