It’s up to you if you only want to take a tap on your back. But, you’re not going to find only this out there.
Moreover, you’re not one of those who tap others’ backs. You’re asking for something you are not ready to do.
You’re free to hide your head in the ground but this is only a run away.
As much as you ask, you’re not gonna get just exactly what you want from others because these others are free. You can’t change anything or anyone but yourself.

***** Sure, this is gonna be deleted, I’m gonna be told off by a moderator. FREEDOM OF SPEECH. One of the most stepped rights.