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I think therapy is probably your best way to learn how to not continue being treated this way. A Therapist can help you understand the cause & if there is something you might be doing since this treatment by others is so broad ranged. Learning what might be triggering others & learning interpersonal relationship skills could help a lot because it sounds like something you were never taught as a child given how your parents were (sounds like they had no interpersonal relationship skills either. ) (I had parents who were lacking those skills too & married a guy who was too)
The good thing learning the skills my T was able to integrate those past bad experiences
with what I learned & I finally learned how to be functional in a new life where things went smoother & I knew better how to relate to others so they could better relate to me.
We have to learn what we need to learn & make a functional part of our life to get out of the victim situation we have been in for way too long....growing up in a dysfunctional family teaches us dysfunctional skills that others have a hard time interfacing with which can leadbto bullying if around people who also learned dysfunctional skills in relating to others creating a whole snowball effect in our lives.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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