Hugs, Artie. Post all you want--we're here. It makes total sense that you're stressed about this. And you thought H would be able to support you through it, and it's sounding doubtful now.

I did have the thought the if he tests positive that you'd likely need to cancel. Or at least check in with them on whether it's OK to still come in. Maybe if you have a negative test and don't have symptoms, they'd be OK with it? I mean, I'm guessing most people don't even bother to test anymore (I still do, if I'm at all concerned for any reason, though only if I'll be going somewhere).