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Old Dec 04, 2023, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
She’s never yelled at me or tild me off before. She’s alwYs been supportive & kind most of the time. She even offered to help loan me money to pay for my medical bills earlier dince I have no insurance without me asking.

This was out of character for her. I think she has an avoidant personality & that she tries hard to avoid any kind of ‘conflict’ for lack of a better word.

She’s a people pleaser.

I do like her. I never said I didn’t. She said that I’m like a sister to her.

She is a bit eccentric & a bit crude, but she’s normally not that bad.

She’s a good person at heart & reliable.

Why do you think she lashed out at me? Why would she mot want to discuss anything?
I’ve no idea why she lashed out. She doesn’t sound like a people pleaser. People pleaser would not set boundaries and would agree to everything you asked.

I think avoiding conflicts especially in public doesn’t necessarily mean she has avoiding personality.