The discussions I had with other people were made with myself & them sober too & they still didn’t want to discuss things.

I have noticed that you tend to assume that the problem lies with me since I supposedly don’t listen or that I tend to be argumentative or whatever isn’t true at all.

I do listen. I might misunderstand things at times, but I listen & I don’t argue. I may disagree with people at times, but that is NOT the same as arguing with someone. I’m allowed to have a different opinion. That’s NOT arguing.

Other people can disagree with me & not be arguing with me as well. I think that maybe some people might see disagreement as ‘arguing’ or being ‘combative’.