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Old Dec 04, 2023, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by seesaw View Post
You keep saying you both like each other but honestly the behavior is not of two people who like each other. I wonder if you've confused convenience with appreciation and friendship?
This is the first time she has yelled at me in public. She has refused to discuss issues before but.

But she never told me off. I did mention that she has been supportive up until yesterday.

I don’t understand the sudden attitude. She is going through a divorce that she intiated, so it’s possible the stress is getting to her. She hasn’t been happy in her marriage for a long time.

It’s no excuse though.

I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt for now, but I don’t think that I can count on her to be supportive anymore.

I don’t appreciate her accusing me of being a victim & that I complain all the time. She contradicted herself as she told me that I’m fun & that we always have a good time & that I’m like a sister to her & that I’m a good person & that there’s nothing wrong with me.

I told her about the people at my new job & she told me that some of them sound like awful rude people. She didn’t tell me that I was complaining about things then.

Maybe the alcohol made her nasty? Idk.