Has anyone had the experience where people in AA have put down the fact that you are coiong to a T. They say they did it all with aa. I tried that but it didn't work. I was not dealing with my PTSD and abuse issues. I couldn't get close to anyone becuase I was still surviving. Talk with AA about abuse and they say all families are dysfunctional and get over it quit dwelling on it. Im not dwelling on it I was to remember and learn and try a new way. One that AA has not been able to show me. My sponsor wanted a 4th to appease her I did one did or want to or feel ready to no--i am working on a different fourth step relating to the abuse but she don't get that. They are making me crazy.