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I am so much happier single but that is also because I ended up with a dysfunctional husband. If we had same values & responsibility concepts it probably would have worked & if he hadn't been an idiot from even before the wedding I might have had respect for him but he lost that before the wedding & dug his hole even deeper after. It would have been nice to have had the right person because we had the same computer engineering career which could have been wonderful if he hadn't been such a jerk.
Now no fighting about where the money went or why didn't you show me that bill since everything was joint. No arguing about doing things we don't have money to do & no credit to pay....I use cash don't pay interest.....I check his credit report now because I still have legal action against him & he never pays but minimum of all his credit cards. Lost the house to foreclosure & sold it off to an investor the month before it auctioned then stole all that money even when a judge ordered it put in trust. If I wasn't still legally fighting that jerk leaving our names on the loan when he sold the house I would have totally walked away like I thought I had. The wonderful part about living across the country is that I really don't have to deal with his stupidity except for the things that actually effect me personally. I seriously would never consider getting married especially at my age. I am happy on my farm with my critters & the freedom to truly be me & not the evil person I became living around him & handle my finances totally responsibly & willingly do without things I can't afford. Definitely life us peaceful & happy here & I know when someone unbalances that peace it is them not me causing it & I can take action to remove them from my life.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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