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Old Dec 07, 2023, 07:26 AM
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Originally Posted by NatalieJastrow View Post
You are very lucky to have a good relationship but most people don't have that today. Honestly my SIL thinks she has the best relationship in the world but I can't tell her her husband cheats on her on the regular.
Trust me I had my share of bad relationships, and that’s why I am not in them anymore. I don’t think it has anything to do with luck. It’s important to know what work for you.

Wow. How do you know he cheats and she doesn’t know? It’s terrible. Why can’t you tell her? I’d want to know. It’s a big safety concern in addition to everything else. If you have factual evidence, I believe the right thing is to tell her.

We can’t really say what most people have or don’t have. I know lots of people in healthy relationship