Yes crazy1..I have.

It is unfortunate that in many instances,,a persons ego gets attached to their success. When that happens a person will often impose a sense of control upon another.

In the case of AA there are folks who believe that the length away from a drink is meritable of some recognition when in reality each person is as close to a drink as the next person.

We all suffer,,that is for sure and no one escapes this trip without pain.

But every pain has it's source and as wonderful as aspirin is,,,it don't fix everything...same with AA. Even the founders recognized that reality in the suffering alcoholic.

Take what you need and leave the rest crazy and seek help where you need it...One size does not fit all...

Best of fortune upon you in this journey...

Lenny