As far as how to calm before surgery, that i don't know. I didn't handle very well before mine (well how could i, it was a catheter ablation on my heart!) The night before I couldnt even sleep in my bed the anxiety was so bad so i was on the couch. Finally it was surgery day, and i was in pre-op and originally i thought they were going to do a twilight anastesia (not sure of spelling), but then as soon as they told me they were going to put my fully under i burst out into tears and was a basket case. they gave me some stuff in my iv to calm me down and wooooooooooa i went from unconsolable to ....... heeeey how you doin?!?! So unfort I wasnt able to calm myself.
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