As a sidenote and my sincere apologies for going off topic but, @Samicat, I do not believe that all the "good relationship" material guys are gone at an older age. I refuse to believe that as a newly single 53 year old female, and I believe that it's very pessimistic and fatalistic for anyone single at my age to think that way. Of course there are still good men available at any age. And at my age, many "good" men have also been married and divorced. Over half the population in the US gets divorced. With that statistic, how can all the "good" men be gone? That is erroneous thinking and it makes it seem hopeless for those of us females who ARE single and who want a relationship. Females who think that way are far too pessimistic.

Sorry, but I had to reply to that.