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Old Dec 10, 2023, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
Yeah, she is a jealous loser. I made a big mistake telling her about my personal life. It’s actually common to share some personal details with close friends & best friends.

I don’t tell just anyone about these things even though it seems like it, lol. I have been open with people on here about what meds I take & other things as this us a support board, BUT I normally am more private & discreet with most people I don’t know that well irl, lol.

I thought that I could trust her. I was wrong obviously. I knew her for 2 or 3 years. So she wasn’t a stranger to me & we knew each other in person too.
I and my close friends don’t share details of our marital sex so not sure where it’s common. It’s actually not recommended because you are sharing something very intimate that happens in your marriage without your spouse knowing (not the same as sharing with a professional).

Many women would feel betrayed if they knew their husband discusses their sex life with his buddies. So I am sure men would feel the same. If you discuss your single sex life engaging with random people, then it’s different. Our bedroom is ours. Not for others to know.

I discuss meds with my close friends and we sometimes discuss side effects etc That’s not uncommon. But I’d not discuss with everyone

I just don’t understand how all these people are your close friends yet they treat you badly and you don’t like them either. Not everyone should be your friend even you know them for 2-3 years. I know a lot of people but only a few are my actual friends. The rest are activity partners or acquaintances.

Knowing someone for 2-3 years doesn’t always mean they are your friends. Certainly don’t be friends with “trashy losers” as you called this woman