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Old Dec 11, 2023, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
If he doesn’t want relationship with you up to the point of not wanting you in the same room and cut ties long time ago, it wouldn’t be wise to sign any kind of papers. When and if the hospital calls again, emphasize that he doesn’t want you in his life so you can’t sign anything.

Families can be brutal and exhausting.
I think that is the bottom line. I think I got that across today. However, I'll see what tomorrow brings. Two different MSWs called me today. So, they don't seem to be fully hearing me. They thought I could at least sign for the cats. That could get my brother furious with me. They later contacted me to say a neighbor was caring for the cats.

He seemed very alert yesterday when he told me to go away. He has that right to cut off relations with any, or all, family. It seems to me that I would do best to take that seriously and respect his boundaries, which he has a right to set.
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