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Dec 12, 2023, 11:33 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,077
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Originally Posted by Nammu
Why would you want her to come home? After everything shee has done to destroy the home life. The kids don’t deserve to be upset again by her and her selfishness’. The kids need you to remain strong and put them first.
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From my own personal experience it is not so much wanting them home but waking up to their foolishness & changing to be an adult & living a decent life to show the kids that "good change" can happen.....but we all know never will.
My now ex lost any possibility of being in my life the day (in my case) I walked out the door. It would have been nice if he had changed & better for him.....but 16 years later he owns nothing except the things he wanted so bad that I walked away from. Some people never change & that is something we finally accept & move on with the things we value in life.
I so get divorcing a disordered person only in my case he totally ignored the lawyers letters & the courts. Different disorders but they sure make it hard to deal with them & so many unknowns of how it will go & what they will do. Nornal people are hard to deal with but disordered ones are off the chart impossible
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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