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Originally Posted by Therapy reviewed
That's tough one. From my experience I'd find a T of a more mature age. Yes things can up for everyone where time off might be needed. (it didn't for me with me with my last long term more mature T) Belief me you can get over the feelings you have now.
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That's what my H suggested: find a therapist past childbearing years. That would sopbe one problem, but then there would be other problems (when would that therapist retire? Die? etc.).
Feelings come and go, yes. And the situation can change (timeline of when she'll have more children, my situation, etc.). But for now, I'm having to hold these feelings alone, without her.