Her life is constantly impacting mine. I get that's what real relationships do, but this isn't a real relationship like the rest of life's relationships. This is a therapeutic relationship. If I was a friend or family member, I could call her up just to see how she's doing. I could probably ask to drop by to see her and the baby. I wouldn't be cut off. I feel like she's playing both sides: allowing her life to impact me so much and holding therapeutic boundaries. That also isn't fair.