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Originally Posted by divine1966
I and my close friends don’t share details of our marital sex so not sure where it’s common. It’s actually not recommended because you are sharing something very intimate that happens in your marriage without your spouse knowing (not the same as sharing with a professional).
Many women would feel betrayed if they knew their husband discusses their sex life with his buddies. So I am sure men would feel the same. If you discuss your single sex life engaging with random people, then it’s different. Our bedroom is ours. Not for others to know.
I discuss meds with my close friends and we sometimes discuss side effects etc That’s not uncommon. But I’d not discuss with everyone
I just don’t understand how all these people are your close friends yet they treat you badly and you don’t like them either. Not everyone should be your friend even you know them for 2-3 years. I know a lot of people but only a few are my actual friends. The rest are activity partners or acquaintances.
Knowing someone for 2-3 years doesn’t always mean they are your friends. Certainly don’t be friends with “trashy losers” as you called this woman
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For the record, I didn’t go into explicit details about things. It was a general discussion about things. I see your point though. I won’t do it again. I rarely have done that with most people I have known tbh.
I thought that I coukd trust her, but I was wrong about that. These people were former friends btw. The friends that I have now are fine.
I just had one recent issue for the first time with a good friend. Having disagreements at times or finding aspects of their behavior annoying doesn’t mean that I don’t like the other person.
I wouldn’t be friends with people I didn’t like. Remember that I cut out that toxic friend group I used to have where I was constantly looked at up & down by one lady despite being told a few times to not do that to me.
I told them all to stop pushing me to have my pic taken each time we went out & they still harassed me to death. They obviously didn’t respect my boundaries among other things, so I got rid of them.
These people I knew seemed like friends at first.