Again I can relate to your comments regarding a non-reciprocal relationship. We are expected is sit and be attentive while they describe their various aches, and pains. And by all means, don't even remotely seem like you are able to comprehend or have experienced similar situations in our own life, 'cause all our challenges are simply phooey. We create our own problems because we ALLOW ourselves to be so distracted and ALLOW our minds to go in fifth different directions or we ALLOW ourselves to procrastinate. If we would just buckle down we would have any problems. I don't know about you but I am frequently told that I just don't know what it is like living with pain everyday. Whoopsie, this is a bit of a rant... sorry