Well hon...it looks like the ones who are creeps and controlling all think that you are weak and able to be controlled. And that is soooooooo not the case
I'm sorry he was a schmuck.....but ya know....we all go through that in our lifetime looking for a mate. I'm glad you don't have to have a man in your life to make you happy or define you. I think you are the the tops just the way you are. The man in your life should compliment who you are.....and you deserve to be treated with much love and respect.....don't ever forget that

sabby