I have a suggestion, being a long time old lady here. How about breaking up your concerns and putting them in different areas? I've found that folks feel uncomfortable with long threads and tend not to read or post on them. For instance, post about job concerns in a job area, post about a sick pet in the pets section, etc. Believe me we pet owners are very sympathetic! Then you're likely to find people who can relate more to what happening to you. And will read your posts and get busy responding. (Of course, remember that none of us are professionals--just people who also have problems and are trying to help each other!)

It sounds like folks are working hard to give you their advice, though. We do care. I'm sorry it doesn't seem like we don't sometimes.