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Originally Posted by nonightowl
It's embarrassing to have to ask for something others get all the time. It's like fishing for a compliment. I don't want them there because I asked, it's not "real" or sincere then. A thread about me in Kudos has no more posts/nice images but other threads do. Post my sobbing emoji there? Then get them?
I know it's not just me as Mountain said, so I'm sure others feel the same. It's like high school again.
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Absolutely.
I never ever had a post about me on kudos thread or things like birthday wishes or anything like that. And I’ve been on this forum for a long time and help a lot of people on here, including spending my time researching things to help people. Yet nothing. Ever. It’s just how it is. Others get constant kudos and congrats. Often same people. Repeatedly
So yeah that’s the thing. It’s not what being said it’s who the posters are. I do get some thank you for my posts but it’s usually from people I know on here, friends.
And yes sometimes there would be 5 posters saying same thing and only one would receive accolades but sometimes they just repeated what others already said.
I think it’s just how it is. We have somebody at work receiving regular public kuddos and congrats and constant applauses for exact same thing several of us are doing and it doesn’t get acknowledged in any special fashion. We can never figure it out at work why is it so. So it’s not just Internet forum