Jesyka no one says it was your fault. I feel that you are misunderstanding.

It wasn’t your fault the gun was there but it wasn’t that lady’s fault either. You want people to understand how you feel about variety of situations, but you don’t want to understand how others feel, in particular how someone would feel seeing a gun laying around in a strangers house.

It doesn’t matter who put it there. You can’t blame a person for immediately leaving and not coming back or communicating with you after the incident.

Please try to understand what people are saying. No one blames you or saying you put a gun there. We are trying to explain to you why this person left and won’t talk to you. You are mad at her for no reason. You’ll never find anyone who’d be ok with this situation. Please try to understand that you cannot blame this person